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arachne8xI am not sure if I was lied to or if the wasp's nest that I am now caught in is the result of misunderstanding. Either way this happened because someone was not completely honest.
Let me explain. To me completely honest means that you tell someone things that they need to know.... not just not lying. Deception is just as bad as lying and omission is the most cowardly type of deception.
I hope that I am wrong. I hope that this is all a huge misunderstanding because if not then I am losing a friendship. I do not forgive people who lie to me.....
So here is my advice to those who read this:
Stop being so cowardly. Stop avoiding conflict because it scares you when the result is going to be that you are being deceptive. Its better to take your lumps before things get bad then to let things get worse. Have the difficult conversation and deal. Grow up.
Let me explain. To me completely honest means that you tell someone things that they need to know.... not just not lying. Deception is just as bad as lying and omission is the most cowardly type of deception.
I hope that I am wrong. I hope that this is all a huge misunderstanding because if not then I am losing a friendship. I do not forgive people who lie to me.....
So here is my advice to those who read this:
Stop being so cowardly. Stop avoiding conflict because it scares you when the result is going to be that you are being deceptive. Its better to take your lumps before things get bad then to let things get worse. Have the difficult conversation and deal. Grow up.
